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Finishing "shame"
Read moreI got a detail wrong about *Shame*, and in correcting it, I found a whole other movie hiding inside two minutes of Lucy Walters’s face.
Watching “shame” again – pleasure and joy
Read moreMichael Fassbender’s soulless, brilliant performance yanks my heart out — it captures so much of what I remember from that time in my life.
You look just like…
Read moreA brief history of my face.
Tough questions
Read moreQuestions my son will ask me one day, and how I’ll answer them.
E[lust] #50
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all in one place.
A great ass in leggings
Read moreWhat I think when I see a great ass in leggings is not what you might expect. It’s conceptual, not explicit — and that distinction may explain more about me than I’d like.
More on sex scarcity
Read moreSofia offers a woman’s perspective on sex scarcity, and I riff on her fantasy of a world where you can just walk up to someone and negotiate preferences before fucking.
Love is that which we know
Read moreRyan and Toby hate each other, but love is never really about how things look from the outside.