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Ode to a porn site
Read moreA love letter to my favorite porn site, and how I’d make it better if it were mine.
Update on what’s popular here at mdl
Read moreA peek at what you all like to read around here — compiled, fittingly, in a coffee shop too loud for actual thinking.
Single guys and sex parties
Read moreThe answer to how a single guy gets into a sex party is simpler than most men want it to be.
James deen has me thinking
Read moreWhen I wrote this, the biggest sin we knew Deen to be guilty of was overabundance. It still reads well, as long as you know that times have changed my view.
Sex tips for straight women from a gay man
Read moreThe best sex tips have nothing to do with anatomy.
Are you an ass man?
Read moreWhat makes me look, and what makes me keep looking, aren’t the same thing.
Plenty
Read moreThe volatile narcissism of self-esteem: how quickly I can swing from buoyant to bereft, and back again, all on the evidence of women’s desire.
Greater wisdom on arrogance
Read moreIf you think me arrogant, there’s no meaningful objection I can offer. But I’m RIGHT, and they’re WRONG — which may well be true, but is rarely wise to say aloud.