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Changing rape culture
Read moreA proposal for a crowd-sourced database of rape accusations draws objections both legal and moral. I find the karmic objection compelling; the “false accusations” objection, less so.
Rape prevention
Read moreA half-baked, possibly quarter-baked, idea about crowdsourcing accountability for rapists.
Blogging and anonymity
Read moreSomeone’s threatening my friend Hy’s anonymity from behind a cowardly pseudonymous veil of her own, and it’s got me thinking about the ethics of writing about sex you’ve actually had.
I don’t know you well enough to give you a….
Read moreA phrase overheard at work, and the places my mind took it.
E[lust] #56
Read moreThe monthly roundup of the smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.
Lies, damn lies, and polyamory
Read moreThe ethics of fucking someone else’s partner aren’t mine to police. But the practical risks? Those I think about.
Inconsiderateness, trust, distance
Read moreI keep promising Sofia something simple, and I keep failing to deliver. The why of it is more interesting than the failure itself.
My favorite position
Read moreIt’s cowgirl, and I’ll tell you exactly why — but there are exceptions.