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• Date with v

  January 23, 2014 · 3 min read

  Forgot my wallet, made her pay for everything, collared her at the bar, and lost count of her orgasms at Le Trapeze. Not very dom-ly — except for the parts that were.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Good girl Le Trapeze Lingerie Sharpie Suck my cock Swinging V

• Deconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment

  January 23, 2014 · 1 min read

  A taxonomy of sexual commitment — what we promise, what we pretend, and what we actually mean.

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  Musing
  Monogamy Polyamory

• Them’s the breaks…

  January 22, 2014 · 4 min read

  The exponential complexity of four-way attraction, and the useful sting of rejection.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Craigslist Dating Polyamory
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  Distant buddies – an update

  January 21, 2014 · 3 min read

  Sofia has been lurking in the background of this blog, and it turns out she’d rather not be.

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  Distant buddies Sofia

• Blog perks #1

  January 18, 2014 · 1 min read

  Sometimes a reader introduces herself with more than just a comment.

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  Audio Graziella Orgasm Orgasms

• Cultural sexual hegemony #6: flat shoes vs. heels

  January 17, 2014 · 3 min read

  Steve Martin’s “The Cruel Shoes,” and why I’d rather see a woman in flats than in heels.

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  Musing
  Cultural sexual hegemony

• E[lust] #54

  January 15, 2014 · 2 min read

  The best sex bloggers, all in one place.

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  E-Lust Meme Sex toys

• Overheard between t & n during sex

  January 12, 2014 · 1 min read

  Pillow talk, verbatim.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Marriage T Talking dirty