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Are you an ass man?
Read moreWhat makes me look, and what makes me keep looking, aren’t the same thing.
Plenty
Read moreThe volatile narcissism of self-esteem: how quickly I can swing from buoyant to bereft, and back again, all on the evidence of women’s desire.
Greater wisdom on arrogance
Read moreIf you think me arrogant, there’s no meaningful objection I can offer. But I’m RIGHT, and they’re WRONG — which may well be true, but is rarely wise to say aloud.
Every so often
Read moreA woman on the street reminds me of Jennifer, a woman I paid to suck my cock in her West Village apartment years ago, whose rough tongue and too-nice apartment and hedge fund boss I tried not to think too hard about.
Arrogance and confidence
Read moreThere’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and I’m not always on the right side of it.
Lost and found
Read moreWinnicott nailed it, and so does every pseudonymous sex blogger who hits “publish.”
My most frequent visitors
Read moreA roll call of my most devoted readers, and a nakedly narcissistic plea to know what keeps them coming back.
Changing rape culture
Read moreA proposal for a crowd-sourced database of rape accusations draws objections both legal and moral. I find the karmic objection compelling; the “false accusations” objection, less so.