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• Insecurity

  April 10, 2014 · 2 min read

  Two women I see weekly, both gorgeous, both objects of my idle fantasies — and then one of them flirts with another guy, and I’m gutted, not because I want her, but because she didn’t want me.

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• Semantics

  April 9, 2014 · 1 min read

  The language of monogamy is the language of faith — and of heresy.

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  Adam Phillips Monogamy

• A serious request

  April 9, 2014 · 1 min read

  I don’t ask for much. But I’m asking for this.

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  Friend

• What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? chapter 2

  April 8, 2014 · 1 min read

  Angela wasn’t satisfied with my first answer, so here’s my second attempt: sensation and power.

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• Two more dissolutes – april

  April 7, 2014 · 5 min read

  Our monthly roundup of dissolute blogs finds me fascinated and repelled in equal measure by a man’s unapologetic accounts of transactional sex in Amsterdam’s Red Light District.

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  Dissolutes Hyacinth

• Ddevious delights, rip

  April 7, 2014 · 1 min read

  A farewell to one of my favorite New York sex party series, which has devolved into something I won’t be attending.

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  Sex club Sex parties Swinging

• Ode to a porn site

  April 6, 2014 · 2 min read

  A love letter to my favorite porn site, and how I’d make it better if it were mine.

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  Criticism
  AmateurAllure Porn

• Update on what’s popular here at mdl

  April 4, 2014 · 2 min read

  A peek at what you all like to read around here — compiled, fittingly, in a coffee shop too loud for actual thinking.

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