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• Dear belle knox

  April 22, 2014 · 2 min read

  A fan letter to a porn star I admire — for her work, yes, but even more for her words.

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• Narcissism, from a different angle

  April 22, 2014 · 1 min read

  A Playboy mention, some flattering analytics, and a meditation on what happens when strangers actually stick around.

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  Blogging Narcissism

• Belle knox – more

  April 21, 2014 · 8 min read

  A smart, confident Duke undergrad who does porn and thinks clearly about it — she’s rapidly winning my heart.

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  Belle Knox Porn

• Belle knox

  April 20, 2014 · 1 min read

  I’m loving Belle Knox. More to come.

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• Say “yes” to me

  April 18, 2014 · 1 min read

  I want to tell you what to do. I want to tell you what to wear. I want you to say “yes” to me.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Erotica Instructions Sofia

• Paean – but a little more intimate

  April 17, 2014 · 1 min read

  A conversation that starts with a creep on a train and ends somewhere much more interesting.

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  Flirting Tina

• Sex addiction – a primer

  April 16, 2014 · 3 min read

  My evolving opinions on a diagnosis that doesn’t actually exist.

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• The hydraulics of rejection

  April 15, 2014 · 2 min read

  Rejection makes me want a blow job from a stranger and a cigarette, in that order. Instead, I’m just sitting here, feeling it.

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