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Tinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
Read moreOn Tinder, I lead with something vaguely suggestive and slightly funny — and I mean every formulaic word of it.
Instructions
Read moreA set of instructions for an evening.
Sofia
Read moreI’ve never met Sofia, but I know her body — in fragments, in parts — better than I know most faces I see every day.
Tinder strategies, part 1 – swiping
Read moreMy three approaches to swiping on Tinder, from mindless to attentive — none of which, it turns out, makes much difference.
More to come
Read moreI meant what I said, but maybe not how you heard it.
Anger
Read moreFor me, anger is never primary. It’s always protecting me from something else — usually fear.
What it feels like when a woman comes with me inside her, after i have used her
Read moreEvery woman comes differently, and it never feels the same way twice—but it always feels like the best thing in the world.
Inspiration
Read moreYour entire body will be still, like it or not. I need to go shopping.