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• Paean

  July 15, 2014 · 1 min read

  A woman on the subway, seen with unearned precision.

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  Paean

• Compliance (re)defined

  July 15, 2014 · 1 min read

  What I really mean when I say I want you to do as I ask.

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  Musing
  Compliance Domination Submission

• Back

  July 13, 2014 · 1 min read

  I’m back. Inspire me.

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  Writing

• My virtual pornographer

  July 9, 2014 · 1 min read

  Sofia makes the best porn I’ve ever seen — and she makes it just for me.

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  Distant buddies Sofia

• Vacation

  July 8, 2014 · 1 min read

  My silence will end soon. In the meantime, I hope you’re having a good summer.

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• On compliance

  July 3, 2014 · 3 min read

  Compliance is a turn-on. Imperfect compliance is a turn-off. Don’t make me ask twice.

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  Musing
  BDSM Compliance Domination Submission Tasks

• At-home animation – poor quality dominance

  July 1, 2014 · 1 min read

  A reader sends me a cartoon about dominance, made with a tool my kid loves.

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  Domination

• “an admitted sex addict”

  June 30, 2014 · 5 min read

  I don’t call myself a sex addict, though others seem happy to do it for me. A fellow blogger asks whether her own obsessive thinking about sex makes her one too — and I have some thoughts.

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  Advice Sex addiction