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• Paean

  February 13, 2015 · 1 min read

  A woman on the subway, gone before I could finish writing about her.

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• Age

  February 12, 2015 · 1 min read

  I like women of all ages, but the sweet spot is 30s and 40s — where supple flesh meets hard-won perspective.

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• Fantasies about my fantasy

  February 11, 2015 · 3 min read

  I line you all up against a hotel wall and let my imagination do what it does best.

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• Adnan gets an appeal!

  February 7, 2015 · 1 min read

  A young woman was killed, a man may or may not have done it, and a podcast made celebrities of everyone involved. At least now he’s getting an appeal.

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• Bad dates

  February 7, 2015 · 1 min read

  I’ve had a few bad dates. But then again, too few to mention.

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• “fifty shades of grey”

  February 3, 2015 · 1 min read

  I’ve seen the movie so you don’t have to.

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• Memories

  February 3, 2015 · 4 min read

  Walking past a porn store, I remember the soul-crushing hours I spent in places like it, gazing at box covers in a dissociative haze, searching for a fix that would never come.

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• What’s a submissive guy to do?

  February 2, 2015 · 1 min read

  A submissive guy writes to me, marveling at how “easy” it all seems. I set him straight, and then turn to you for help.

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