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• Adnan gets an appeal!

  February 7, 2015 · 1 min read

  A young woman was killed, a man may or may not have done it, and a podcast made celebrities of everyone involved. At least now he’s getting an appeal.

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  Serial Tamora

• Bad dates

  February 7, 2015 · 1 min read

  I’ve had a few bad dates. But then again, too few to mention.

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  Bad dates Dating

• “fifty shades of grey”

  February 3, 2015 · 1 min read

  I’ve seen the movie so you don’t have to.

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  FSOG

• Memories

  February 3, 2015 · 4 min read

  Walking past a porn store, I remember the soul-crushing hours I spent in places like it, gazing at box covers in a dissociative haze, searching for a fix that would never come.

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  Musing
  Porn Sex addiction Sex toys

• What’s a submissive guy to do?

  February 2, 2015 · 1 min read

  A submissive guy writes to me, marveling at how “easy” it all seems. I set him straight, and then turn to you for help.

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• Sofia’s motivation

  February 1, 2015 · 3 min read

  Sofia asked me what I think motivates her. I took a stab at it — not so you can know her, but so you can know how I think about her.

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  Distant buddies Sofia

• My wife is amazing

  January 31, 2015 · 3 min read

  She’s amazing — but not for the reasons you think.

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  Musing
  Marriage T

• I want so much more

  January 30, 2015 · 1 min read

  Since choking isn’t on the imminent agenda, I’ll settle for images of Allie’s body. I dare her to give me enough.

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  Allie