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• Question:

  February 28, 2015 · 3 min read

  A sexy reader asks me about desire and arousal, and I have some thoughts.

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• Testimonial

  February 28, 2015 · 1 min read

  A satisfied customer speaks.

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  Oral sex Testimonial

• My narcissism, #17

  February 27, 2015 · 1 min read

  Approval is my drug, and I’ve found a way to deal it to myself in public.

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  Narcissism Testimonial

• On using women, part 2

  February 26, 2015 · 1 min read

  I ended things with someone today, which shows how I don’t use women. Then I posted about it here, which shows how maybe I do.

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• More possibilities

  February 24, 2015 · 1 min read

  A fantasy I’d like to make real, involving a hotel bar, black dresses, boyshorts, and very specific instructions.

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• Question

  February 23, 2015 · 1 min read

  A reader asks a pointed question, and I try to give it the answer it deserves.

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• I don’t want u

  February 22, 2015 · 1 min read

  If you can’t spell all the letters in the word “you,” we won’t hit it off.

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• Emily’s anxiety

  February 22, 2015 · 1 min read

  Emily’s young, she’s hot, and she’s convinced she’s bad at fucking. I’m not worried.

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