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  Tips

  June 10, 2020 · 1 min read

  I am difficult to please. Doing as I ask is simply not enough.

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  Musing
  Compliance Generosity Instructions
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  N gets a sadistic domme

  June 9, 2020 · 7 min read

  Sadomasochism is a funny thing. Here’s how I mean it: when two people enter into a pact that produces mutual suffering.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Dominance In her mind Marina Safety Submission Topping from the bottom

• The world

  June 9, 2020 · 1 min read

  It’s a tough time to write a sex blog.

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  Musing
  Politics

• Helter skelter

  June 9, 2020 · 3 min read

  Rollercoasters and relationships.

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  Musing
  Anticipation Fear Loneliness Masochism

• Paean

  June 8, 2020 · 1 min read

  An unbidden selfie….

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Paean

• Sleepless sundays

  June 8, 2020 · 4 min read

  Sometimes I struggle to sleep….

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  Musing
  Insomnia

• Privilege, shame, and brutality

  June 6, 2020 · 3 min read

  I can breathe.

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  Musing
  Narcissism Politics

• Strength and safety, dominance and terror

  June 3, 2020 · 1 min read

  The addictive elixir of submission.

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  Musing
  Dominance Fear Safety Submission Terror