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• I want to fuck you

  April 10, 2013 · 1 min read

  Pretty much where I am right now.

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• Ruts and different pages

  April 9, 2013 · 3 min read

  Ruts are underrated. Being on different pages — that’s the real problem.

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• Gripe to me

  April 7, 2013 · 1 min read

  Tell me what you don’t like. I’ll listen.

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• Seven-letter words

  April 6, 2013 · 1 min read

  A friend challenges me to stop using words of seven letters or more. I’m already failing.

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• Do you know me?

  April 6, 2013 · 3 min read

  You know what I choose to show you, and almost nothing else.

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• Sex work

  April 6, 2013 · 2 min read

  Among the dozens of women I encountered, what struck me most was the enormous variety — and what that taught me about sex work as a category, not a thing.

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  Male sexual violence

  April 5, 2013 · 12 min read

  We men are like a kid running with scissors: irresponsible and dangerous.

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• Terminology (ii)

  April 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  A reader asked me to define narcissism. I’m happy to oblige — it’s a word I know intimately.

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  Narcissism Terminology