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• The view from my room

  March 27, 2013 · 1 min read

  Life is good. More anon.

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• Stop rape

  March 21, 2013 · 1 min read

  In case you missed it: stop rape.

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• Trainers*

  March 20, 2013 · 1 min read

  Two women at my gym who make working out genuinely dangerous.

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• Program note

  March 20, 2013 · 1 min read

  Freud is my bartender, and I’d like to tell you what he’s been serving me.

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• Bad boys

  March 20, 2013 · 3 min read

  What girls wanted wasn’t badness. What they didn’t want was niceness. It took me decades to understand the difference.

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• E[lust] #44

  March 19, 2013 · 2 min read

  The smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.

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  Speaking the unspeakable

  March 19, 2013 · 7 min read

  Pubescent girls affect me in ways I wish they didn’t. Here are some thoughts about all that.

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• A study in brown

  March 19, 2013 · 1 min read

  Every shade of brown, from boot to lip.

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  Paean