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Read moreIf I had my way, I’d take an oral sex break a few times a day. Intercourse, though, is rarely something I desire until someone’s been licking or sucking for quite a while.
Newfound pleasure
Read moreI’ve discovered the simple pleasure of talking to women in bars — no agenda, no expectations, just conversation.
Left-handed
Read moreI write with my left hand now, and I wonder what that does to my brain.
A simple porn-surfing thought
Read moreA screen full of my favorite gifs, all at once. You’re welcome.
Dating at the speed of business
Read moreI used to reply to every message instantly — in work, in dating, in sexting. Now I’ve learned that the space between messages can be more charged than the messages themselves.
Date with v
Read moreForgot my wallet, made her pay for everything, collared her at the bar, and lost count of her orgasms at Le Trapeze. Not very dom-ly — except for the parts that were.
Deconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment
Read moreA taxonomy of sexual commitment — what we promise, what we pretend, and what we actually mean.
Them’s the breaks…
Read moreThe exponential complexity of four-way attraction, and the useful sting of rejection.