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• Relationship tips

  December 8, 2013 · 4 min read

  Forget the quizzes — if your gut says something’s wrong, it is. Here’s what I actually find useful instead.

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  Musing
  Advice Relationships

• You walk into the bar

  December 8, 2013 · 2 min read

  You’ve heard it before. But you’re wet, and you’re dressed as I asked, and you don’t see me yet.

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  Memory or fantasy?
  Dominance Erotica Good girl Instructions

• Blurred lines

  December 6, 2013 · 1 min read

  Misogynist lyrics, rape porn, Robin Thicke, and the difference between censoring desire and changing culture.

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  Musing
  Misogyny Porn

• Glennon doyle melton

  December 5, 2013 · 3 min read

  A writer, a recovering addict, a TED talker — and my inexplicable, overwhelming physical reaction to her.

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  Addiction Attraction

• Boobday

  December 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  Curating the art of the breast shot, one theme at a time.

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  Breasts Hyacinth

• Paean

  December 3, 2013 · 1 min read

  A woman on the subway, described.

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  Paean

• Thirsty

  December 2, 2013 · 1 min read

  Pre-teen girls taught me a new word at dinner. I like it. I’m thirsty.

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  Musing

• I’ve been wondering….

  November 30, 2013 · 2 min read

  How many of us are more than one person online, and why isn’t anyone studying this?

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  Musing
  Compartmentalization Marriage