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Collecting on ambivalence; sharing intimacy
Read moreI didn’t run from E’s ambivalence, and she rewarded me handsomely. Now she wants the blog — but that comes at a price.
Two flavors of shame
Read moreTwo flavors of shame — and neither is better, neither is harder.
Cultural differences
Read moreI imagined, for just a nanosecond, outing myself as non-monogamous to a table of straight professionals. The moment passed.
Let be be finale of seem
Read moreWallace Stevens — my favorite insurance executive — on concupiscent curds and horny feet.
Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Read moreThe getting feels better than the having — and that realization explains more about me than I’m entirely comfortable with.
N. likes
Read moreA partial catalog of things I like, and a clue to my name.
And finally…
Read moreThe final installment of this particular fantasy — in which she finally gets the words right.
Paean
Read moreA brief, lovely encounter with a woman whose personality I drank in even more than her looks.