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• The talk: police

  October 24, 2014 · 5 min read

  Parenting is complicated. Here’s one conversation I had with my son, about cops.

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• Creep shots

  October 24, 2014 · 1 min read

  I’m not proud of this.

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• Paean

  October 23, 2014 · 1 min read

  A portrait of a woman on the subway.

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  Paean

• Rejection and writing

  October 22, 2014 · 1 min read

  Three rejections in one day, and I went to a coffee shop instead of a massage parlor.

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  Musing
  Meme Rejection Wicked Wednesday Writing

• Dogs….

  October 21, 2014 · 1 min read
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• Two more dissolutes – october

  October 21, 2014 · 17 min read

  Hy and I are back with two more dissolute picks, and I have some thoughts about Cande’s posts on sex tourism and paying for sex.

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  Commercial sex Scotch

• “thanks for sharing”

  October 20, 2014 · 3 min read

  Acid indigestion, Netflix, and a grimly puritanical movie about sex addiction that gets a lot right and a few things painfully wrong.

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• James comey is confused

  October 19, 2014 · 11 min read

  James Comey thinks there should be no zone free from the eyes of law enforcement. As a slutty, polyamorous sex blogger, I have some thoughts about that.

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  Politics