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Objectification – questions, not answers
Read moreI have more questions than answers about objectification, but I think the questions themselves are worth sitting with.
Consent
Read moreI hate the word “consent,” even as I wholeheartedly endorse the concept behind it.
Geeky note
Read moreSometimes the geekiest corners of my life intersect with the most dissolute ones — here, in my efforts to organize my Google Drive along the multiple axes of my fragmented existence.
Defining "the talk"
Read moreNot one conversation but a lifetime of them — what I really mean when I say “the talk.”
Porn for kids
Read moreWhen smart people talk about porn, they often say dumb things. I hope to avoid that particular pitfall.
Other people’s thoughts on “the talk”
Read moreI asked for thoughts on “the talk,” and got a bunch — including a couple I found more frustrating than helpful.
Kids and porn – a crowd-sourcing plea
Read moreI’m going to write about kids and porn, and I want your help.
Top blogs
Read moreThe evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.
