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Geeky note
Read moreSometimes the geekiest corners of my life intersect with the most dissolute ones — here, in my efforts to organize my Google Drive along the multiple axes of my fragmented existence.
Defining "the talk"
Read moreNot one conversation but a lifetime of them — what I really mean when I say “the talk.”
Porn for kids
Read moreWhen smart people talk about porn, they often say dumb things. I hope to avoid that particular pitfall.
Other people’s thoughts on “the talk”
Read moreI asked for thoughts on “the talk,” and got a bunch — including a couple I found more frustrating than helpful.
Kids and porn – a crowd-sourcing plea
Read moreI’m going to write about kids and porn, and I want your help.
Top blogs
Read moreThe evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.
“the talk” – a draft
Read moreWhat I wish someone had told me about sex and desire, and what I’m trying to figure out how to tell my kid.
Thinking about “the talk”
Read moreI’m drafting my thoughts on “the talk,” but first, I want yours.
