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Unfamiliar feelings
Read moreI want to hurt someone. Not because she wants me to, but because I do.
Meta-creep shot
Read moreA man on a train, his phone, and two young women — and the complicated sympathy of a recovering creep.
Lazy (or, i want, part two)
Read moreToday, I don’t want to make you scream. I want to lie back and let you do all the work.
I want
Read moreA modest proposal.
My buddhism
Read moreObjectification and narcissism
Read moreOn objectification, the confusion it causes me, and the unexpected clarity that domination provides — and then takes away.
Binge watching
Read moreI finished binge watching “Orange is the New Black,” and now I want to fuck the cast. Here’s my top ten, ranked in order of raw, unapologetic objectification.
Human resilience
Read moreA man I met in 1991 — homeless, hustling, gay, disowned — is still alive, still homeless, twenty-two years later. He awes me.