(Sex) addiction
I’ve written a fair amount about the concept of sex addiction. Is it real? Can one be addicted to sex?[…]
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Repetition compulsion
Sigmund Freud wrote of the “repetition compulsion.” The technical definition, per Wikipedia, is the repetition of “a traumatic event or[…]
Read moreOban Single Malt Scotch Whisky Distiller’s Edition Double Matured
Friends of T’s and mine bought me a bottle of Scotch. A really nice bottle of Scotch. Before I say[…]
Read moreHow I wait
I’m off to our nation’s capital, by train. Amtrak makes track announcements about ten minutes prior to departure. Until then,[…]
Read moreShould we speak?
Does speaking add? That’s not really the right question: of course it adds. But does it also subtract? I like[…]
Read morePaeans and want, or, life in the big city
Who needs a car? I love that travel here necessarily involves intimate contact with hundreds, thousands. For many, this overwhelms,[…]
Read moreOn the swingset
The scene: a weekend away with friends, and friends of friends. Three couples, five kids. Bikes, mopeds, puzzles, games. Grilling[…]
Read moreAfter I cum
Orgasms are emotional points of inflection in time. Some cry after they cum. Some laugh. Some want to cuddle, or[…]
Read morePaying for it, revisited
If I’m honest, in my moments of greatest pain, loneliness, rejection, perceived abandonment, what I want more than anything isn’t[…]
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