Fucking Tinder
Once more, Tinder has cut me off, mid-conversation. Just deactivated my account, preventing me from interacting, consensually, with people. If[…]
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Guys being douchebags
I was raised to believe that Playboy oppressed women, objectified women, created unrealistic expectations on the part of men, and[…]
Read moreRough sex and aggression
I recently wrote that I thought my discomfort with rough sex has something to do with my ambivalent relationship toward[…]
Read moreA bird in the bush
When I was in 7th or 8th grade, we had an art assignment: each of us was to render in[…]
Read moreRough sex, cognitive dissonance, and acting
If I’m honest, “rough sex” confuses me. I’m capable of rough-ish sex. I can spank, slap, throw around, etc. But[…]
Read moreThe Rockette dances again
A while back, we had decided (I had decided) that we should stop seeing one another. Our interactions were not[…]
Read moreStopping shame in its tracks
I was twelve. My cousin was fourteen. We didn’t see each other that often – maybe a few times a[…]
Read moreMuscle memory
As I descended the stairs into the subway – a particular stairway at a particular station – I was overcome[…]
Read moreQuestions and answers
Questions: 1) Why are you sucking my cock? 2) For how long will you suck my cock? 3) Why will[…]
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