My Dissolute Life

Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – Blowjobs

I googled “Best oral sex video ever,” and this is what I found. This is not how I like my[…]

“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For[…]

She’s short – maybe 4’11”. She wears tragically stonewashed jeans. Her tank top, over big, round c-cup breasts, reads “NERD”[…]

She stands, legs spread, her back to me. Brown worn leather boots. A white sheer miniskirt with floral patterns hides,[…]

I’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is[…]

Not possible at Starbucks. In the States, we have no such restrictions. I’m so sorry. I had no idea.

I recently wrote about the somewhat surprising prominence men have in my retellings of my sexual adventures. They have the[…]

This is the first in a series of posts about ways that I’m a little different from what I understand[…]

I like women. A lot. Maybe too much. I like seeing them, discovering them, talking to them, getting to know[…]