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Remembering strip clubs – the icky parts
Read moreStrip clubs can be glorious, and they can be where you go to watch a little part of yourself die. I’ve done both.
You watch from afar
Read moreYou’re out there, reading, aching, wanting. I know. Write to me.
Tales of rejection
Read moreThere’s so much more sex I don’t have than sex I have. Sometimes I wonder if it’s not the rejections I crave even more.
A late-night rendez-vous
Read moreCoffee, months of tension, and then, finally, a late night in which she did everything I asked and I disappeared into the dark.
Dispassionate
Read moreTwo sexy women, two great dates, and two write-ups that made the sex sound less hot than it was. I’m better at desire than satisfaction — on the page, at least.
Among the things i like about wolves
Read moreThis.
Esther perel nails it
Read moreEsther Perel talks about infidelity without demonizing anyone, and gets it exactly right.
Evangelizing
Read moreI have strong feelings about Google Inbox, and one fatal flaw involves your nudes.