My quest for rejection, my discomfort with acceptance
If you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot),[…]
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Hot and cold
I walked in, and looked around. She wasn’t at the bar. Of course not. She’d be in the back, where,[…]
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For years I bought T the equivalent of kitchen appliances as Valentine’s Day gifts. No more! I just had a[…]
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I just wrote about how I don’t really like writing about sex. But this isn’t exactly right. Many of my[…]
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I don’t really like writing about sex. This may be an odd confession, for a writer of a self-styled “sex[…]
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Once upon a time, I wore a suit to work. Every day. That was before. I hated it. I felt[…]
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For years, I was deeply ashamed. I believed my desires were shameful, contemptuous. I desperately struggled to suppress those desires.[…]
Read moreShe was working from home….
“I’m considering working from home….” “If you work from home, can I come fuck you?” “Um, yes?” “I’ll be there[…]
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