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Drama
Read moreI abhor drama. So why does it keep finding me?
A simple conversation, a recent memory
Read moreA recent exchange with the Rockette, and its satisfying conclusion.
Good to know
Read moreA thought to ponder
Read moreAdam Phillips, on the futility of sexual jealousy.
Uncertainty, fear, arousal – a fragment from a past date
Read moreShe’s late, and I cycle through annoyance, gratitude, and want before she even arrives — from the wrong direction, dressed exactly as I asked.
Tinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
Read moreOn Tinder, I lead with something vaguely suggestive and slightly funny — and I mean every formulaic word of it.
Instructions
Read moreA set of instructions for an evening.
Sofia
Read moreI’ve never met Sofia, but I know her body — in fragments, in parts — better than I know most faces I see every day.