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  Polina’s problem, or, seduction

  September 25, 2025 · 1 min read

  A definition of seduction

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  Musing
  Polina
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  Displacement and disruption: a summer without home

  September 24, 2025 · 2 min read

  After being forced to vacate our home due to required code upgrades, T and I have been living in a series of temporary spaces, financially and emotionally drained by a renovation we never wanted.

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  Thin flat sandals are sexy (and i’m no foot fetishist)

  September 20, 2025 · 1 min read

  I like flat sandals.

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• Ghosts

  September 19, 2025 · 2 min read

  I hate being ghosted. It shakes my sense of connection, judgment, and even cosmology.

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  Musing
  Abandonment Milica

• Free speech

  September 18, 2025 · 1 min read

  I’m scared

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  Mortality Politics
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  The cost of taking care

  September 18, 2025 · 4 min read

  Despite transforming my relationship to food and fitness over decades, maintaining my body now feels like an exhausting and resented obsession.

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  Musing
  Anger
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  Charlie kirk, and things i believe

  September 17, 2025 · 2 min read

  A catalog of loathsome humans, some thoughts on political violence, and the things that scare me most right now.

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  Mortality

• Trump’s note to epstein

  September 11, 2025 · 1 min read

  The focus should be on why Trump sent a note to Epstein and the meaning of ‘enigmas’ in it, rather than its authenticity.

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  Musing
  Jeffrey Epstein Trump