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• I’m a progressive, feminist john

  August 16, 2018 · 6 min read

  Some friends and I discuss sex work….

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• Priorities

  August 15, 2018 · 1 min read

  They’re for real.

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• A thought in a men’s room at a bar

  August 15, 2018 · 1 min read

  All communication should come with stage directions.

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  Smoking

  August 14, 2018 · 1 min read

  Five in a drawer, two smoked, two remaining. I never said math was among my talents.

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  Dear hope

  August 13, 2018 · 2 min read

  Hope is delicious, but I’m afraid I may have failed to give her enough of what she needed to keep her giving me what I need.

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  Thinking about rules (#1)

  August 12, 2018 · 5 min read

  It can be challenging – and rewarding – to have a date subject to strict, pre-established limitations. Fuck, it can be hot just to negotiate them.

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• Caution

  August 12, 2018 · 1 min read

  Caution: the site is a bit of a mess currently, and is subject to pretty significant rejiggering over the coming days.

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• A look i like (paean)

  August 12, 2018 · 1 min read

  She’s striking, and she checks a LOT of my boxes.

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