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  Male sexual violence

  April 5, 2013 · 12 min read

  We men are like a kid running with scissors: irresponsible and dangerous.

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  Musing
  Anger Compliance Mortality T

• Terminology (ii)

  April 4, 2013 · 1 min read

  A reader asked me to define narcissism. I’m happy to oblige — it’s a word I know intimately.

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  Narcissism

• Terminology (i)

  April 4, 2013 · 4 min read

  A glossary of sorts — what I actually mean when I say “compulsion” and “addiction,” and why the distinction matters more than you might think.

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  Addiction Sex addiction

• Teen sexuality (cont’d)

  April 3, 2013 · 4 min read

  A reader responds, thoughtfully and at length, to my earlier post on teen sexuality.

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  Shame

• Sex addiction revisited

  April 3, 2013 · 4 min read

  I keep circling back to this one, because smart people I admire keep getting it wrong in the same way.

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  Sex addiction

• Rejection

  March 28, 2013 · 1 min read

  The feeling I fear most is the one I’ve spent years seeking out.

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  Musing My story
  Rejection

• The view from my room

  March 27, 2013 · 1 min read

  Life is good. More anon.

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• Stop rape

  March 21, 2013 · 1 min read

  In case you missed it: stop rape.

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