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Happy thanksgiving
Read moreHappy Thanksgiving! I have so much to be grateful for.
Rejection
Read moreWhen you reject me, am I rejected? What lessons do I draw from my rejection? What is the meaning of my rejection? And is the rejection mine? Or yours?
Splitting
Read moreAm I all good? All bad? Or is it possible that, like everyone, I’m a little of each? That I’m complicated, that I am capable of both good and bad?
Staying alive
Read moreI’m thinking about the strategies I have for making myself feel alive, when I’m struggling with a feeling of deadness. And I’m revisiting my past.
Orgasms
Read moreOrgasms per person per day – what better way to understand the world?
Fear
Read moreTrump has no tolerance for disrespect of him, high tolerance for hatred in his name. Steve Bannon threatens fifty years of Trump, and enthuses “it will be as exciting as the 1930s.” I’m scared.
The best sex blog
Read moreApparently, this blog is NOT one of the 100 best sex blogs. At least according to one subjective ranking.
Make my cock hard again (#mmcha)
Read moreI am troubled by all the hating that’s going on – on both sides of the political divide. I wonder if it’s not possible to heal divisions with my cock.