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Two dimensions of peril
Read moreSofia’s right: I really am difficult. The two dangers of being desired — having instead of getting, and being wanted in the wrong amount.
Writing by a sex worker
Read moreA sex worker writes about her experience, and it reads like the flip side of mine.
Rip tinder? (or, “good riddance, tinder”?)
Read moreTinder kicked me off, and I’m left with more women than I can handle and less appetite than I’d have predicted.
Multiple paeans
Read moreThe subway provides, even when I’m not looking.
Poly pals
Read morePolyamory goes mainstream — or at least, mainstream enough for a kids’ show.
Closure
Read moreI don’t disappear on people. I say good-bye. I wish more people extended me the same courtesy.
Another orgasm
Read moreListen, as Penelope comes for me.
Anonymity and tinder
Read moreFacebook wants to tell your friends you use Tinder. You might want to do something about that.
Anonymity and tinder
Read moreFacebook and Tinder have teamed up to deny me the right to exist anonymously in their ecosystem, and I’m annoyed — even if my dance card is, at the moment, full.
Paean
Read moreA woman, described.
Tinder woes
Read moreI hate it when Tinder decides I’m undesirable. Not when WOMEN on Tinder decide it, but when the app itself does.
Rules for distant buddies – and local subs
Read moreThese are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.
Rose
Read moreA turbo-slut, a Tinder match, and the inevitable trajectory from first message to leaving the bar.
L is back
Read moreThe woman who inspired this blog is having an affair again — just not with me, and not the honest kind.
Paean – strip club crush
Read moreA strip club encounter with a dancer who spoke English, pulled hair on request, and had a heart-shaped ass. I was a perfect gentleman. Seriously.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway, seen with unearned precision.
My virtual pornographer
Read moreSofia makes the best porn I’ve ever seen — and she makes it just for me.
The lady vanishes (or, “kids today….”)
Read morePoof. She was simply gone from my list. The kids today….
Tinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
Read moreOn Tinder, I lead with something vaguely suggestive and slightly funny — and I mean every formulaic word of it.
Sofia
Read moreI’ve never met Sofia, but I know her body — in fragments, in parts — better than I know most faces I see every day.
