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Holidays
Read moreHolidays disrupt everything — writing, playing, routine. But I took my Tinder on the road, and apparently I’m catnip west of the Hudson.
Women i’ve never met: lauren
Read moreLauren is young, short, incredibly busty, and for a hot moment, incredibly compliant — until she wasn’t.
Paean, or abortive pick-up
Read moreA woman on a train who may or may not be someone I know, and who may or may not want me to take her home.
I often seem to misunderstand
Read moreTinder is teaching me that not everyone treats interactions — virtual or otherwise — as real. I do, and it stings when that’s not reciprocated.
Tinder
Read moreTinder has suspended me again, mid-conversation with a handful of matches, and I hate being the guy who just disappears.
A tinder message i enjoyed
Read moreA woman on Tinder appreciates my… specificity.
Paean?
Read moreA beautiful woman’s gaze on a street corner — forward, warm, unreadable.
The varieties of tinder experience
Read moreA taxonomy of the women I don’t enjoy interacting with on Tinder, which is to say, nearly all of them.
A sub with a non-dom
Read moreA gorgeous woman from Tinder writes me for advice about her vanilla boyfriend. I do my best, conflicted as I am.
Farewell to sofia
Read moreShe never once tripped the wire of my fragile desire, and now she’s gone.
Polyamory in the new yorker
Read moreRelated posts: Symmetry Polyamory and sex at dawn Polyamory, seriously? Polyamory and swinging
Oiseau
Read moreShe reminded me of a bird — tiny, fragile, shivering when I placed my hand on her throat.
Abandonment on tinder
Read moreShe showed me everything, promised me more, and then vanished — not even a goodbye, just the silent void of a disappeared Tinder thread.
Sex trafficking
Read moreAn unfinished, scattered meditation on sex trafficking — what I know, what I don’t, and the joyless workplaces that aren’t limited to the sex industry.
A first date
Read moreMy presumption is that you’re a slut who’s going to do exactly as I say.
Fucking tinder
Read moreTinder, once again, has decided I can’t be trusted to talk to people.
Paean
Read moreA woman I can’t stop watching, even when I should.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway, described in obsessive, reverent detail.
Paean
Read moreA portrait of a woman on the subway.
Two more dissolutes – october
Read moreHy and I are back with two more dissolute picks, and I have some thoughts about Cande’s posts on sex tourism and paying for sex.
