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Rules for distant buddies – and local subs
Read moreThese are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.
Rose
Read moreA turbo-slut, a Tinder match, and the inevitable trajectory from first message to leaving the bar.
L is back
Read moreThe woman who inspired this blog is having an affair again — just not with me, and not the honest kind.
Paean – strip club crush
Read moreA strip club encounter with a dancer who spoke English, pulled hair on request, and had a heart-shaped ass. I was a perfect gentleman. Seriously.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway, seen with unearned precision.
My virtual pornographer
Read moreSofia makes the best porn I’ve ever seen — and she makes it just for me.
The lady vanishes (or, “kids today….”)
Read morePoof. She was simply gone from my list. The kids today….
Tinder strategies, part 2 – contact after matching
Read moreOn Tinder, I lead with something vaguely suggestive and slightly funny — and I mean every formulaic word of it.
Sofia
Read moreI’ve never met Sofia, but I know her body — in fragments, in parts — better than I know most faces I see every day.
Tinder strategies, part 1 – swiping
Read moreMy three approaches to swiping on Tinder, from mindless to attentive — none of which, it turns out, makes much difference.
Tinder advice
Read moreA guy with a rule-violating Tinder profile offers unsolicited advice to women about theirs.
A brief meeting in a coffee shop
Read moreA brief meeting, a direct question, and an unsurprising disappointment.
Desire as a public good
Read moreThe things I want from the women in my life are remarkably consistent, and that consistency can feel, to each of them, like a diminishment.
Paean
Read moreA woman at a conference, chewing gum, selling to dentists’ offices, in linen pants that hug her slightly big but unquestionably delicious ass.
Logistics
Read moreThe unsexy truth about how I schedule sex.
More on luna
Read moreLuna scares me — she’s too hot, too smart, too snarky, and my desire for her is so visceral it makes me stupid and vulnerable in ways I don’t write about well.
Luna
Read moreI meet, and prepare to use, Luna.
Meet the amazon
Read moreThe Amazon gives me an awesome blowjob – her mouth is like a warm cave of jello, with soft pillows lining the walls.
Tinder date
Read moreShe’s tall, toned, and joyously kinky — and our date got me thinking about shame, its absence, and why I need it lurking somewhere nearby for sex to mean anything at all.
Snapchat
Read moreWhen you send me a picture, you give me a gift. When you send it on Snapchat, you show me a gift — and then take it back.
