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My most frequent visitors
Read moreA roll call of my most devoted readers, and a nakedly narcissistic plea to know what keeps them coming back.
Rape prevention
Read moreA half-baked, possibly quarter-baked, idea about crowdsourcing accountability for rapists.
E[lust] #56
Read moreThe monthly roundup of the smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.
Inconsiderateness, trust, distance
Read moreI keep promising Sofia something simple, and I keep failing to deliver. The why of it is more interesting than the failure itself.
What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? chapter 1
Read moreShe asked me, mid-blowjob, what I like so much about having my cock sucked. It’s a harder question than you might think.
Two more dissolutes – march
Read moreN. and Hy swap sex-blog recommendations, and I get to be a dick about word choice.
Our dissolute list means…
Read moreHy and I are launching a joint curation project — one smart, hot, well-written post each per month, plus a discriminating shared blogroll, because finding sex writing that’s actually worth reading shouldn’t be this hard.
A pinhole camera
Read moreWhat you see here is only what I let you see, at the angle I choose. The question is whether you remember that.
E[lust] #55
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
I’ve decided to stop writing sex
Read moreIn a hotel elevator, I told Graziella I hate writing about sex — and then, of course, I went ahead and wrote about the sex.
Left-handed
Read moreI write with my left hand now, and I wonder what that does to my brain.
E[lust] #54
Read moreThe best sex bloggers, all in one place.
Timing
Read moreWhat you read here and when I wrote it may have little to do with each other.
Let it not be the last time
Read moreOur relationship had become three-dimensional, and fucking was off the table. I was damned if I was going to let that stop me.
I don’t feel like writing
Read moreNot writing about not wanting to write about not wanting to write.
Suck my cock
Read moreI don’t love the words, but I sure love the act. A meditation on the inadequacy of language.
On being edited
Read moreMy grammar, you’ll have noticed, is perfect. My experience with a recent editor, not so much.
Blurred lines
Read moreMisogynist lyrics, rape porn, Robin Thicke, and the difference between censoring desire and changing culture.
Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Read moreThe getting feels better than the having — and that realization explains more about me than I’m entirely comfortable with.
Your pussy throbs
Read moreThe orgasm is mine, not yours.