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Zotero (geek post)
Read moreI’m a geek. Here’s a geek post about how I keep track of all the shit I read.
Two more dissolutes – may
Read moreHy and I swap blog recommendations again — this month, I’m drawn to the cold, almost sociopathic detachment of a john in Amsterdam, and to the sharp voices of sex workers writing about their own lives.
Dear belle knox
Read moreA fan letter to a porn star I admire — for her work, yes, but even more for her words.
Update on what’s popular here at mdl
Read moreA peek at what you all like to read around here — compiled, fittingly, in a coffee shop too loud for actual thinking.
My most frequent visitors
Read moreA roll call of my most devoted readers, and a nakedly narcissistic plea to know what keeps them coming back.
Rape prevention
Read moreA half-baked, possibly quarter-baked, idea about crowdsourcing accountability for rapists.
E[lust] #56
Read moreThe monthly roundup of the smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.
Inconsiderateness, trust, distance
Read moreI keep promising Sofia something simple, and I keep failing to deliver. The why of it is more interesting than the failure itself.
What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? chapter 1
Read moreShe asked me, mid-blowjob, what I like so much about having my cock sucked. It’s a harder question than you might think.
Two more dissolutes – march
Read moreN. and Hy swap sex-blog recommendations, and I get to be a dick about word choice.
Our dissolute list means…
Read moreHy and I are launching a joint curation project — one smart, hot, well-written post each per month, plus a discriminating shared blogroll, because finding sex writing that’s actually worth reading shouldn’t be this hard.
A pinhole camera
Read moreWhat you see here is only what I let you see, at the angle I choose. The question is whether you remember that.
E[lust] #55
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
I’ve decided to stop writing sex
Read moreIn a hotel elevator, I told Graziella I hate writing about sex — and then, of course, I went ahead and wrote about the sex.
Left-handed
Read moreI write with my left hand now, and I wonder what that does to my brain.
E[lust] #54
Read moreThe best sex bloggers, all in one place.
Timing
Read moreWhat you read here and when I wrote it may have little to do with each other.
Let it not be the last time
Read moreOur relationship had become three-dimensional, and fucking was off the table. I was damned if I was going to let that stop me.
I don’t feel like writing
Read moreNot writing about not wanting to write about not wanting to write.
Suck my cock
Read moreI don’t love the words, but I sure love the act. A meditation on the inadequacy of language.