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Net neutrality
Read moreI’m cynical about politics, but net neutrality brings out the idealist in me. Also, there are porn stars.
Stopping shame in its tracks
Read moreA twelve-year-old boy, a closet, a cousin with breasts, and the indelible shame of getting caught — plus some thoughts on what we owe the teenage boys who do creepy things.
Writing
Read moreI’ve been writing a lot lately — just not here.
Interesting tidbit
Read moreA little numerical navel-gazing as I approach a milestone.
Rejection and writing
Read moreThree rejections in one day, and I went to a coffee shop instead of a massage parlor.
James comey is confused
Read moreJames Comey thinks there should be no zone free from the eyes of law enforcement. As a slutty, polyamorous sex blogger, I have some thoughts about that.
Top blogs
Read moreThe evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.
Brief meta-kvetch
Read moreI have things to say. I just can’t figure out how to say them.
Ebbs and flows
Read moreSometimes N goes quiet while the other guy gets busy living. Here’s a chart to prove it.
Anonymity and tinder
Read moreFacebook and Tinder have teamed up to deny me the right to exist anonymously in their ecosystem, and I’m annoyed — even if my dance card is, at the moment, full.
Warnings
Read moreSuspicious packages, furtive groping, and the politics of fear on a crowded train.
I haven’t been writing
Read moreI’m back. Again. Maybe. Probably. We’ll see.
Back
Read moreI’m back. Inspire me.
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the rockette)
Read moreI didn’t give the Rockette what she expected — I smiled, I asked questions, I insisted on consent — and then I left her bruised, sore, and a little scared of me.
E[lust] #59
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
A brief meeting in a coffee shop
Read moreA brief meeting, a direct question, and an unsurprising disappointment.
Paean
Read moreA woman at a conference, chewing gum, selling to dentists’ offices, in linen pants that hug her slightly big but unquestionably delicious ass.
Faking it, part 2
Read moreThe question isn’t whether the orgasms are real, but whether the sounds are performed — and whether that distinction even matters.
E[lust] #58
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
Discovering tinder
Read moreDesigned by addiction researchers, populated by women whose clits throb at lunch — Tinder may be my dream app.