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Santorum
Read moreI propose a new definition for an old word.
Cheating
Read moreLiza asked me about cheating. I wince at the word — it reduces something sprawling and tragic to a single dimension of betrayal, when what I did was something far worse: I led a secret, double life.
Recognition
Read moreA tiny frisson of validation.
E-lust #33
Read moreThe best sex writing on the internet, or at least some of it.
Working out
Read moreMy trainer knows just how to motivate me.
Working out
Read moreMy trainer said “good boy,” and all I could think about was throwing her around and making her earn “good girl.”
My origin myth, continued
Read moreLiza asks the question this blog can never fully answer: how do you get from twelve years of secret cheating to a healthy open marriage with the same woman?
Jealousy
Read moreIt’s not the fear of losing her. It’s the fear of being rendered worthless by whoever I lose her to.
Money and attention
Read moreThe paradox of paying for what you most want: it delivers the act but destroys the meaning.
Sympathetic
Read moreL tells me I’m not very sympathetic, and I want to understand why — even as I suspect the answer is staring back at me from every post on this blog.
Tmi
Read moreI answer some questions no one asked, and apologize for it.
We’ve never met
Read moreFour pictures, zero meetings, and a voice message I can’t forget.
Mimosa
Read moreA complete story in three sentences.
Image
Read moreA woman in a shop window stops me cold.
Call for submission/s
Read moreI want to know what you want to read.
Sympathy for the devil (2)
Read moreI have known monsters. They’re good, decent, kind, loving people.
Fleshbot
Read moreFleshbot keeps sending people my way. If you’re one of them, welcome — stick around.
My origin myth
Read moreNot all of what I write is true. But all of it is real.
Traffic
Read moreEighteen thousand page views, a few charts, and proof of what a complete and total geek I am.
Distant rendezvous
Read moreA piano player, a dark bar, a plane ticket, and a pair of panties balled up in my pocket.
