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I’ve decided to stop writing sex
Read moreIn a hotel elevator, I told Graziella I hate writing about sex — and then, of course, I went ahead and wrote about the sex.
Left-handed
Read moreI write with my left hand now, and I wonder what that does to my brain.
E[lust] #54
Read moreThe best sex bloggers, all in one place.
Timing
Read moreWhat you read here and when I wrote it may have little to do with each other.
Let it not be the last time
Read moreOur relationship had become three-dimensional, and fucking was off the table. I was damned if I was going to let that stop me.
I don’t feel like writing
Read moreNot writing about not wanting to write about not wanting to write.
Suck my cock
Read moreI don’t love the words, but I sure love the act. A meditation on the inadequacy of language.
On being edited
Read moreMy grammar, you’ll have noticed, is perfect. My experience with a recent editor, not so much.
Blurred lines
Read moreMisogynist lyrics, rape porn, Robin Thicke, and the difference between censoring desire and changing culture.
Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Read moreThe getting feels better than the having — and that realization explains more about me than I’m entirely comfortable with.
Your pussy throbs
Read moreThe orgasm is mine, not yours.
E[lust] #52
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
Trāyastriṃśa
Read moreThe heaven of the thirty-three, reimagined.
Liza and me: a blogger romance, of sorts
Read moreI envied Liza — her writing, her sex life, her success, her followers — and I couldn’t stop comparing myself to her.
The douchebag and the teen party
Read moreDoug Gansler’s defense of letting his son’s underage party rage on reveals something far worse than bad parenting: the “boys will be boys” logic that makes girls responsible for not getting raped and boys blameless for raping them.
Apparently, i’m a sex blogging superhero
Read moreI’ll take it — #30 out of 100 sex blogging superheroes, and one of the few on the list who’s actually, you know, a sex blogger.
Update to the reading guide
Read moreA refreshed look at what you all are reading — and what that says about you, and me.
Inspiration
Read moreTwo brief fictions about blindfolds, trust, and the senses we use to know one another.
Topics
Read moreTwo years in, hundreds of posts deep, and I’m nowhere near done — but I want to know what keeps you coming back.
R comes for me
Read moreR sends me the sound of her coming, and then tells me, in words, exactly what she did. FUCK is this hot.