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On being edited
Read moreMy grammar, you’ll have noticed, is perfect. My experience with a recent editor, not so much.
Thoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Read moreThe getting feels better than the having — and that realization explains more about me than I’m entirely comfortable with.
Your pussy throbs
Read moreThe orgasm is mine, not yours.
E[lust] #52
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, under one roof.
Trāyastriṃśa
Read moreThe heaven of the thirty-three, reimagined.
Liza and me: a blogger romance, of sorts
Read moreI envied Liza — her writing, her sex life, her success, her followers — and I couldn’t stop comparing myself to her.
The douchebag and the teen party
Read moreDoug Gansler’s defense of letting his son’s underage party rage on reveals something far worse than bad parenting: the “boys will be boys” logic that makes girls responsible for not getting raped and boys blameless for raping them.
Apparently, i’m a sex blogging superhero
Read moreI’ll take it — #30 out of 100 sex blogging superheroes, and one of the few on the list who’s actually, you know, a sex blogger.
Update to the reading guide
Read moreA refreshed look at what you all are reading — and what that says about you, and me.
Inspiration
Read moreTwo brief fictions about blindfolds, trust, and the senses we use to know one another.
Topics
Read moreTwo years in, hundreds of posts deep, and I’m nowhere near done — but I want to know what keeps you coming back.
R comes for me
Read moreR sends me the sound of her coming, and then tells me, in words, exactly what she did. FUCK is this hot.
E[lust] #51
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all under one roof.
Why i write, take 3,232
Read moreI’ve written about this before, but I keep coming back to it from different angles — exhibitionism, pride, shame, sunlight, and the intellectual hard-on I get when something I write actually lands.
Reminiscing, or, narcissism
Read moreI re-read my own blog, and I liked it. But narcissism is more complicated than vanity — especially when your self-esteem hinges on whether you’re wanted, and how much, and by how many.
E[lust] #50
Read moreThe smartest and hottest sex bloggers, all in one place.
Smoking – part 2
Read moreThe shame of buying a pack, and the way my body betrays me by feeling better the moment I decide to do it.
Imagine
Read moreA woman on a train, and the stories I tell myself about her.
Loneliness and rejection
Read moreI tossed off a quick answer about loneliness, then spent the next few hours realizing I was wrong about myself — and tracing the line from rejection to shame to paying for the very rejection I was trying to escape.
Writing assignment 1: smoking
Read moreThe anatomy of craving a cigarette — mental, bodily, and the tricks my brain plays to get me to succumb.