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Dilemma
Read moreThirty minutes, no internet, and too many options. This is not a humble brag — it’s a genuine crisis.
From fantasy to reality
Read moreThe fantasy was me and eight or ten women. The reality was two, in black dresses, at opposite ends of a bar. My fallback position was, it turned out, pretty fucking spectacular.
I don’t want u
Read moreIf you can’t spell all the letters in the word “you,” we won’t hit it off.
Fantasies about my fantasy
Read moreI line you all up against a hotel wall and let my imagination do what it does best.
Quiet
Read moreLife is good. Busy. Complicated. Challenging. Interesting. But good.
More on charlie hebdo
Read moreSome further thoughts, courtesy of friends and the press.
Je ne suis pas charlie
Read moreI don’t think people deserve to be killed for what they say. But I think people have a responsibility when they open their mouths, or pick up their pens.
She demands that i name her
Read moreShe refused to name herself. I refused to let her off the hook. I named her Tamora, and she can take it up with me while my cock’s in her mouth.
A tinder message i enjoyed
Read moreA woman on Tinder appreciates my… specificity.
Sex trafficking
Read moreAn unfinished, scattered meditation on sex trafficking — what I know, what I don’t, and the joyless workplaces that aren’t limited to the sex industry.
Thought for the day
Read moreRelated posts: One more late-night thought…. A quick thought on abortion, on election day Topics Random fragments
Net neutrality
Read moreI’m cynical about politics, but net neutrality brings out the idealist in me. Also, there are porn stars.
Stopping shame in its tracks
Read moreA twelve-year-old boy, a closet, a cousin with breasts, and the indelible shame of getting caught — plus some thoughts on what we owe the teenage boys who do creepy things.
Writing
Read moreI’ve been writing a lot lately — just not here.
Interesting tidbit
Read moreA little numerical navel-gazing as I approach a milestone.
Rejection and writing
Read moreThree rejections in one day, and I went to a coffee shop instead of a massage parlor.
James comey is confused
Read moreJames Comey thinks there should be no zone free from the eyes of law enforcement. As a slutty, polyamorous sex blogger, I have some thoughts about that.
Top blogs
Read moreThe evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.
Brief meta-kvetch
Read moreI have things to say. I just can’t figure out how to say them.
Ebbs and flows
Read moreSometimes N goes quiet while the other guy gets busy living. Here’s a chart to prove it.
