Territory
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High-concept swinging
Read moreAn elaborate fantasy involving oral sex, a dinner party, and Craigslist — and the humbling discovery that almost no one else wants what I want.
She comes on my face
Read morePrenegotiated sex, a magic wand, and a very good morning.
“cum all over me….”
Read moreSalad night with Mara, a chair across the room, and a story she told me with her hands on her knees.
Apology
Read moreAn apology that isn’t really an apology.
She spreads her legs…
Read moreA woman spreading her legs, clothed, is about the hottest thing I can imagine — and I found a new way to procrastinate.
You sent me two pictures
Read moreYou asked what your pictures do to me. Here’s what they do to me.
Rashomon
Read moreMara describes her experience of Le Trapeze. And my cock. And Jen. And Jack. And Jack’s girlfriend.
Rape fantasies
Read moreA friend’s rape fantasy leads me to reckon with why hard fucking is, for me, a quick path to a lost erection.
Sex and death
Read moreWhat if what I’ve always understood as infinite desire is actually infinite fear?
Petite chicks
Read moreAfter a walk with L, I passed a tiny, curvy woman and was swamped with a very specific desire — not for her, exactly, but for the feeling of a small body yielding to my forcefulness.
Porn and desire
Read moreThree ways I use porn, only one of which has much to do with being horny.
The sound of an orgasm
Read moreMara went home to Israel, but she still sent me her orgasm.
The sessions
Read moreA paralyzed man’s quest to experience sex, a sex surrogate who treats the encounter like a medical procedure, and my frustration that the movie can’t imagine foreplay as part of the assignment.
Porn i like (cont’d)
Read moreMore porn I find simultaneously hot and repellent.
Porn i like
Read moreThe second in my series on my tastes in porn — this time, sites featuring actual sex. Turns out what I like most is the thirty seconds before anything happens.
Chicks masturbating
Read moreA tour of three sites featuring women masturbating, and what my porn habits say about my state of mind.
Surprising creep shot
Read moreSometimes the most distracting thing in a meeting isn’t the agenda.
I’m lazy
Read moreGiven my druthers, I’d simply lie back and be ministered to. This makes me a boring sexual partner, but at least I’m self-aware about it.
Glimpses of a fuck to come
Read moreShe won’t commit, but she won’t stop sending pictures either. We both know how this ends.
Questionnaire: how to handle your…
Read moreAnother questionnaire — this time, about how you’d like me to go down on you.
