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Read moreA woman in a shop window stops me cold.
The gym
Read moreShe wants me to write about her. But I write about what I think and what I do — and she’s not quite either.
Sensory deprivation
Read moreWhen all you can do is feel, everything I do becomes a surprise.
A spanking
Read moreA little role-reversal fantasy in which the boss gets what she deserves.
Submissive sought
Read moreShe sounded too good to be true, and there’s no such thing as that good on Craigslist.
Money for nothing and the chicks for free?
Read moreMy relationship to money and desire, and the ingenious, self-defeating system I built to get the former without risking the latter.
Massage parlors
Read moreA tour of the rub-and-tug establishments of my past, from the grim to the almost classy.
Distant rendezvous
Read moreA piano player, a dark bar, a plane ticket, and a pair of panties balled up in my pocket.
A nice view
Read moreA fantasy I sent to a woman I hadn’t yet met.
Leash
Read moreShe’s finicky, bossy, a little whiny — and she wanted a leash around her neck.
Taxicab confessions
Read moreA cab ride I’d like to take.
A fantasy of mine….
Read moreWhat doesn’t turn me on
Read moreStrip clubs are like shrines to a notion of male desire that is almost completely unappealing to me.
What turns me on
Read moreIntelligence, confidence, complete submission, grammar, yoga pants, and a very long list of other things.
She sits at the bar
Read moreI direct her from across a crowded hotel lobby, texting instructions while businessmen in khakis steal glances at what they can’t have.
Writing about sex from a distance
Read moreThe Historian sent me her journal entries from our weekend in Miami. The fucking was hot, but the feelings were hotter.
Fucking, being fucked
Read moreOn the evolution of my fucking technique, from passive to aggressive — and the semicolons along the way.
Miami
Read moreShe got a free vacation; I got her at a moment’s notice. It was a good deal for both of us.
Meet the historian
Read moreFrench theorists on her reading list, no panties under her skirt, and an invitation to Miami before the jazz even started.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – chemistry
Read moreA sex party in a Bushwick loft, with velvet pouches, topless acrobats, and a crowd that works in public radio.