Sex and aggression
I’ve written before that fucking isn’t my primary sexual activity, that I’ll take oral any day. I’ve also written that[…]
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Thinks I think
Apologies and sociopaths
For reasons that I don’t understand, I’m drawn – more than the average bear – to sociopaths. People whose constitution[…]
Read moreThe moth and the flame, continued
Approach, avoid continues, and I’m reminded of Poison – and my reaction to her. Poison, for those who missed her,[…]
Read moreSex addiction
Is “sex addiction” real? This question obsesses many – clinicians, people who experience themselves as being out of control of[…]
Read moreVicissitudes
Up and down I go. I haven’t written much about it, but V and I have been “broken up” for[…]
Read moreThe meaning of sex
I wrote about my conversation with Alison and Tim the other day. It occurred to me that, on some level,[…]
Read moreAmbivalence
If I were a healthy, undamaged human, I suppose I’d be quite a specimen. (Are there any?) The way my[…]
Read moreMeditation on self
Who am I? I am, as the tagline for this blog says, a husband, a father, a slut, a blogger.[…]
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