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Read moreA partial catalog of things I like, and a clue to my name.
Thought for the evening
Read moreA reminder I need, again and again.
Harm and destruction
Read moreThe only destruction I hope to do is situational, welcome, perhaps metaphorical.
Sex and aggression
Read moreFucking has never come naturally to me — it requires an aggression I’ve long kept at bay. Lately, though, something’s shifting.
Apologies and sociopaths
Read moreI keep returning to the same dry well, hoping the people least capable of empathy will somehow deliver it.
The moth and the flame, continued
Read moreWhen a woman shows interest in me, my body goes into overdrive — and my judgment disappears.
Sex addiction
Read moreThe question of whether sex addiction is real is less interesting than what we’re really asking when we ask it.
Vicissitudes
Read moreThe women in my life come and go, and my mood rises and falls with them.
Intensity
Read moreI always want more. That’s just how I roll.
The meaning of sex
Read moreFor most of us, sex is neither a sacrament nor a handshake. It’s something more interesting than either.