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Musing
Thinks I think
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Changing rape culture
Read moreA proposal for a crowd-sourced database of rape accusations draws objections both legal and moral. I find the karmic objection compelling; the “false accusations” objection, less so.
Rape prevention
Read moreA half-baked, possibly quarter-baked, idea about crowdsourcing accountability for rapists.
Lies, damn lies, and polyamory
Read moreThe ethics of fucking someone else’s partner aren’t mine to police. But the practical risks? Those I think about.
Inconsiderateness, trust, distance
Read moreI keep promising Sofia something simple, and I keep failing to deliver. The why of it is more interesting than the failure itself.
My favorite position
Read moreIt’s cowgirl, and I’ll tell you exactly why — but there are exceptions.
Food for thought
Read moreMy official position on failure to launch, once and for all.
Tattoos – part 2
Read moreI’m a word guy. So it’s not surprising that word tattoos are the ones that most often turn me on.
What do you like so much about having your cock sucked? chapter 1
Read moreShe asked me, mid-blowjob, what I like so much about having my cock sucked. It’s a harder question than you might think.
Tattoos – part 1
Read moreNo one who’s met me would say I’m a “tattoo kind of guy.” But I know exactly what I’d get, and where.
A pinhole camera
Read moreWhat you see here is only what I let you see, at the angle I choose. The question is whether you remember that.