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Risk
Read moreI don’t get off on breaking the rules. I want everyone — every lover, every partner — to be just fine with everything I do. Risk scares me. It doesn’t excite me.
Ashley madison
Read moreI was wrong about Ashley Madison.
On women’s age
Read moreA reader in her 40s asks whether I prefer younger women. The honest answer is complicated, and has to do with the difference between 2-D and 3-D.
My wife
Read moreI bought my wife sexy boots. She wore them for me. I responded like an enormous doofus.
Sofia – in pictures
Read moreSofia lives thousands of miles away, sends me more than my imagination could conjure, and does whatever I ask, smiling. Here she is.
Newfound pleasure
Read moreI’ve discovered the simple pleasure of talking to women in bars — no agenda, no expectations, just conversation.
Date with v
Read moreForgot my wallet, made her pay for everything, collared her at the bar, and lost count of her orgasms at Le Trapeze. Not very dom-ly — except for the parts that were.
Deconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment
Read moreA taxonomy of sexual commitment — what we promise, what we pretend, and what we actually mean.
Them’s the breaks…
Read moreThe exponential complexity of four-way attraction, and the useful sting of rejection.
Distant buddies – an update
Read moreSofia has been lurking in the background of this blog, and it turns out she’d rather not be.
Overheard between t & n during sex
Read morePillow talk, verbatim.
Crowded beds
Read moreAt the holidays, the marital bed gets crowded — and not in the fun way.
Paean
Read moreA brief encounter with a woman I’ll never see again.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway, described.
I’ve been wondering….
Read moreHow many of us are more than one person online, and why isn’t anyone studying this?
Paean – impossibility
Read moreTwo encounters with impossible beauty, and nothing to do but be haunted.
Cultural differences
Read moreI imagined, for just a nanosecond, outing myself as non-monogamous to a table of straight professionals. The moment passed.
Paean
Read moreA brief, lovely encounter with a woman whose personality I drank in even more than her looks.
Paean
Read moreShe’s maybe 5’1″, but a shockingly large portion of that distance is legs.
Paean
Read moreI can’t look away from her legs.
