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Monogamy and rejection
Read moreThe sting of rejection is a gift I’d never get if I were monogamous. I’m not sure I’d call it a gift I *want*, but it’s one I need.
My sasha grey – lips
Read moreHer lips defy anatomy, and my imagination.
Half a paean
Read moreThe lower half of a woman, and what I want to do with it.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway, in a red dress, squeezing her thighs together.
Paean
Read moreAll black, except her hair. And a run behind the left knee.
Sitting in bars
Read moreI’ve never been one for the pick-up — but I’m learning that sitting at a bar and telling a stranger you’re a sex blogger makes for surprisingly easy conversation.
Stalking alison
Read moreIt took about twenty seconds to find out everything about Alison. I probably won’t use any of it.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the subway. Or in a coffee shop. Wherever she was, I saw her.
Paean, x2
Read moreTwo women on the subway, described in the only way I know how.
Paean
Read moreA woman at a bar, described in the only way I know how.
Paean
Read moreA woman on the train, reading the Economist.
Paean
Read moreThe tops of her thigh-high fishnets keep drawing my eyes back.
And still one more….
Read moreBlack hair, brown highlights, a denim minidress, and generous decolletage.
And another one
Read moreShe was standing right there, and I couldn’t not look.
Paean
Read moreShe’s all in black, with lavender lips, and she won’t look at me.
Paean
Read moreShe looks sad.
Paean
Read moreImperfection can be hot.
Sex scarcity
Read moreA man’s inarticulate defense of rape led me to a more honest reckoning with the frustration of sex scarcity — one that justifies nothing, but that nearly every straight man has felt.
Sofia’s way – note from a distant buddy
Read moreSofia describes, in her own words, how she went from blog reader to distant buddy — and what, exactly, she wanted from me all along.
The etiology of shame
Read moreWhere shame comes from, and why I need it.