July 2012

When I wrote this discussion of a GQ profile of Deen, we didn’t know him to be a rapist. Or at least, a poor handler of a rape accusation.

Rules are less important than communication — before, during, and after. And caution on a first visit will be repaid with a much better second one.

A far-away woman sends me her orgasm, and it’s a whole different animal.

A friend needs help I can’t give her. Maybe you can.

White clothes, a river breeze, and twelve couples stripping down at a landmark.

Two perspectives, one column: Liza and I are launching a joint advice venture, because every question deserves both a monogamist’s and a slut’s answer.

Before I tell you about the boat, T and I need to negotiate what our son might one day read — and somehow that leads to the word “Daddy,” Oedipus, and my mother.

She’s smart, funny, and brave. And her husband beats her mercilessly.

Liza and I have something up our sleeves.

T’s ass looks great in denim shorts. But that doesn’t tell you very much about her.