Ruthlessness
We all use one another. In my experience, sex is at its best when we’re totally selfish – when we[…]
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Swinging and male bisexuality
This is just a musing, or perhaps a rant: we have a profile on SLS (the dominant “swingers” dating site,[…]
Read moreSpecial, redux
Some while ago, I wrote about the perils of being both a good partner, friend, fuck buddy, and a slut.[…]
Read moreUpdate on L
You may remember L. Although our lives bring us into frequent contact, both with one another and with one another’s[…]
Read moreBoundaries
How do you relate to boundaries? Do you stay far away from them? Run up to them and stop just[…]
Read moreMonogamish
Thanks, Dan Savage, for contributing this word (and not just Santorum) to our language. L is working through her shit. […]
Read moreUnhappy ending?
Well, who knows about endings? Last night, L and I had a date scheduled – our first date since our[…]
Read moreMonogamy and its discontents
Newt Gingrich asked his wife for an open marriage. Sort of. Not really. Really, he asked her not to divorce[…]
Read moreBreaking up is hard to do
I’m sad. I’ve lost something I really value, with someone I really care about. Is it made harder or easier[…]
Read moreThanks for letting me fuck your wife
Is that what you say? What is it that you say when a non-poly guy, whose wife you’ve been seeing for[…]
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