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My Dissolute Life

My Dissolute Life

Husband, Father, Slut.

  • My Story
  • Testimonials
  • Reading guide
    • My Story – Summarized
    • My cock
    • What I like
    • (Sex) addiction
    • Table of contents [all tags]
  • Memory or fantasy?
    • Charlotte
    • Isabel
    • L
    • Marina
    • V
    • Sofia
    • All the other women…
  • Musing
  • Orgasms
    • A whole lot of women coming for me
    • Charlotte’s audio, part 1
    • Charlotte’s audio, part 2
  • Help wanted!
    • Help wanted: partner in crime
    • Stretching partner wanted
    • Blog assistant wanted
    • Distant buddy wanted
    • Fellatrix wanted
    • Model wanted
    • Cunnilingus recipient wanted
  • Contact me

Tag: Acting out

Over-determined

January 17, 2022 N. Likes Musing

Poor decision-making on my part.

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Did podcasts steal my mojo?

May 4, 2017 N. Likes Post

I haven’t been writing much lately. I’ve been listening to too many podcasts. That has to STOP!

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This is what NOT acting out sexually can look like

October 11, 2015 N. Likes Musing

I find myself with some minutes to spare – a window between obligation A and obligation B. I have lots of work[…]

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Rejection and writing

October 22, 2014 N. Likes Musing

Today featured three micro-rejections. Nothing big. Well, that’s not quite true: once upon a time, all three would have qualified[…]

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The hydraulics of rejection

April 15, 2014 N. Likes Musing

I was rejected today. Not by a woman, but in a completely non-sexual, comprehensive, totalizing – and damning – way.[…]

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On certainty

December 12, 2013 N. Likes Musing

Lately, I’ve been sitting myself in bars, as I’ve written, and seeing what happens. Usually (I’ve probably done it five[…]

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The etiology of shame

September 9, 2013 N. Likes Musing

The other day, I wrote about some of my self-destructive impulses, about how, when lonely, I sometimes act (and often[…]

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Loneliness and rejection

September 5, 2013 N. Likes Musing

A loyal reader asked me recently about loneliness, and I tossed off a quick response: “… in general, I don’t[…]

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Introduction

L suggested I do this, and I must confess, I think she's on to something....

There's a lot of different stuff going on in this blog. The links in the top bar provide one path. The categories of my posts - My story, Memory or fantasy, Musing, Criticism, and Written by others - provide another.

The "My story" page, though, is essential to understanding anything else that goes on here. Please go there first.

And when you're done? Then go to the "Reading guide". That'll help you understand a bit more about me, and about what's here, more efficiently. Or? Just read....

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