CPOS

How do you relate to boundaries?  Do you stay far away from them?  Run up to them and stop just short?  Dangle a toe over them?  Sneak past them?  Bound past them?  Defy them? For some, they’re sexy; for others,…

Liza and I have been trading writing assignments.  I gave her “jealousy,” and she handled it winningly (I recommend reading her thoughts on it).  She gave me “cheating”:  “I’m curious about your history with cheating–only on T, or was it…

[apologies – in the transition from Blogger, this post lost its links and pictures and formatting.  Go here to see the original formatted post.] Over a few coming posts, I’m going to write a bit about “sex addiction.” Don’t worry…

Amid all the press that Ashley Madison got a few years ago (back when I was a CPOS), I added it to my arsenal of ways of meeting potential partners. I bought a membership, wrote a detailed, thoughtful profile, checked all the applicable…

She invited herself into my life.  And I’m grateful. First, she invited my family to her family’s second home for a weekend party.  We couldn’t make it (and it would, honestly, have been a bit awkward – we/I hardly knew…

A year or so ago, I read first The Sexual Life of Catherine M. and then Jealousy by Catherine Millet.  The former is an account of the protagonist’s extreme sex life (it can be summed up as follows:  she simply never says/said…