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A whole different kind of orgasm
Read moreA far-away woman sends me her orgasm, and it’s a whole different animal.
Sex on a boat
Read moreWhite clothes, a river breeze, and twelve couples stripping down at a landmark.
Sex on a boat – the prelude
Read moreBefore I tell you about the boat, T and I need to negotiate what our son might one day read — and somehow that leads to the word “Daddy,” Oedipus, and my mother.
On t (part 2)
Read moreOne of the loneliest parts of my secret life was all the interesting shit I couldn’t talk about with T.
Questions about swing clubs, and le trapeze
Read moreA reader has questions about Le Trapeze, sex addiction, and going to a swing club while pregnant. I have answers.
This is what she did for me
Read moreShe read my blog, put two and two together, and offered me a blowjob. I have a policy about that.
A woman’s orgasm
Read moreA reader shares a vivid, detailed account of her orgasm — the first in what I hope will be an ongoing series.
This is what you’ll do for me
Read moreA detailed set of instructions for an afternoon together.
My orgasm
Read moreK asked me to describe my orgasm. Turns out it’s as hard as it sounds.
An unnamed sex party
Read moreOf course the sex party was in a synagogue. For this secular Jew, it felt like coming home.
On quickies
Read moreI’ve never been a fan of the quickie — but I’m learning.
Le trapeze, once more
Read moreA hot night at Le Trapeze. On this evening, I departed from my usual habit of limiting my sexual activity to my date….
In silence
Read moreA twelve-minute, wordless fuck.
Porn: seeking vs. finding
Read moreFour modes of porn consumption, only one of which doesn’t leave me feeling like a hungry ghost.
Female personal trainer sought
Read moreThe Craigslist ad that started it all — a little self-knowledge, a lot of squats, and two trainers later, I’m in the best shape of my life.
On strip clubs
Read moreStrip clubs, sex addiction, smugness, and a visit to New York Dolls.
Talking dirty
Read moreI love writing dirty. Talking dirty? That’s another story.
How to handle my cock
Read moreA little written orientation on the care and feeding of my cock.
Bdsm
Read moreA wise man once told me that dominance and sadism are the same thing. I’m pretty sure he’s wrong, but he’s smart enough that I can’t just dismiss him.
Inappropriate gym-wear
Read moreMy trainer wore a miniskirt and boots to our session. She knew exactly what she was doing.
